YOU CAN DO THIS!

YOU CAN DO THIS!

YOU CAN DO THIS! There are some things that’s been weighing heavy on your mind and your heart and you don’t know what to do. You are scared of what’s taking place. Don’t be, there’s a shaking in your making. You keep doubting yourself but in your heart you know what you need to do. Your faith is being tested and you can’t seem to get the simple answer you need. That’s because this must be your choice and your action is a must. Over the years and in certain situations, you have been able to take a passive role, not today! Whatever you do be true to self, don’t look around look within. Some are starting things anew, some are ending things and some are picking up where they left off. Truth and time are of the essence! I know your heart has been heavy, tears have flowed, you have felt disconnected and you have found yourself wondering what is going on. I stop by to tell you that there’s a shift taking place. Your today will affect all of your tomorrows! If you do nothing else hear me when I say you can do this! Get a notebook, pen and write some things down. LISTEN! Fear nothing, this is greater than self but it requires commitment of self. You have found your friend circle smaller and you don’t understand why. That’s because some things and people had to be removed in order for you to focus. Don’t worry, you didn’t lose anything but your gain is on the way! Do something different today to make all the difference everyday! I have all the faith in the world in you! I believe that you are ready! YOU CAN DO THIS!

#BEOPEN
#BEWILLING
#BEREADY

I LOVE YOU!
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DO IT AFRAID

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DO IT AFRAID

I would love to say, “release your fears and just do it”! I would love to say, Let go and let God”! Truth of the matter is that, it’s usually not that easy nor is it that simple. That’s why I say, “do it afraid!” That means whether you are scared, nervous, fearful or afraid, you can still do it. If you do it afraid, your limits might still exist but they will not stop you. You need to move from this place. It’s time to make a move! Stop worrying and start doing! Stop creating situations in your head and deal with the real world. Life is going on with or without you, I suggest you get busy living! Know that there are many things that I have feared, things that I have worried about but be reminded that I have become more comfortable with doing things while I was yet afraid. Honestly, the things that I have done afraid, has was actually easier than I would have ever imagined! I’m sure I know why and I’m sure you know why too, God will do the impossible! To God be the Glory! So do it afraid, trust God and watch your life change before your very eyes! People will be amazed and so will you!

#GODISABLE
#GODISAWESOME
#GODISEVERYTHING

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WHAT DID OR ARE YOU GIVING BIRTH TO?

WHAT DID OR ARE YOU GIVING BIRTH TO?

As the month of September comes to a close, I ask was your labor in vain? When your water broke on Labor Day, did you not activate your labor and give birth to something? Do not let another year come and go and you remain unchanged, you have been passively pregnant long enough! Your Braxton hicks come and go but, you refused to help facilitate the process! Walk it out and talk it out, you must do your part. You have become stagnated, complacent and almost unsure due to self doubt, lack of trust and lack of faith! But I am here to tell you to keeping pushing! Go ahead, name and claim it! Please concentrate on your birthing process, no two deliveries will be the same! I repeat, no two will be the same so don’t look for confirmation in others. For some people, their process might be a miscarriage; dead things have to be removed to make room for new. For some, an ending may be what needs to be birthed; some seasons, reasons and people should have been gone out if your circle long ago! For some the end might just be the beginning to the best that is yet to come! Dig deep, search within and uncover what you have buried alive, it is time for that very thing to live! Your dreams, aspirations and ambitions will catapult you to your next position and place in this thing called life! So again, what did or are you giving birth to because your tears, blood, sweat, tears, heartaches, pain, perseverance, prayers, dedication, integrity, loyalty and labor have not been INVAIN!

#NAMEIT
#CLAIMIT
#DELIVERIT
#LIVEIT
#ITSYOURSTOHAVE

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PICKING UP THE PIECES

PICKING UP THE PIECES

PICKING UP THE PIECES to a shattered heart, dream, relationship, friendship, career, spirit, faith, sense of self or life is very hard to do. Many of us have found ourselves in one if not all of these situations. The majority of the time it may have been out of our control. Sometimes our situations are results of choices we made or lack their of. Either way the pieces seem to be all of the place and we have no idea where to start. Sometimes we put the pieces where we think they should go with no rhyme or reason and think we have it all together, not. At times people look at out brokenness and think we have it altogether giving us a false sense of wholeness. These illusions cause us to never live the life destined for us. In my journey, when people would say you look like you have it all together I would say, “no, I’m a lot of pieces held together with superglue, and every now and then a piece falls off, I just pick it up a glue it back on, lol.” The thing I had to learn was that I had one Creator and only He knew my purpose. He was the only one that could put me back together so I had to take my pieces back to Him if I wanted to be made over or whole again. He was waiting on me. He wanted to me back together again. He didn’t remind me of what I did or what I didn’t do. HE SHOWED ME WHAT UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WAS AND IS! HE STILL WALKS WITH ME AND HE TALKS WITH ME AND HE TELLS ME THAT I AM HIS OWN! HE FORGIVES, EXTENDS HIS GRACE AND MERCY! HE HEARS MY CRIES AND ANSWERS MY PRAYERS! SOMETIMES HE DENIES ME THINGS BUT IT’S FOR MY GOOD! I admonish you to gather your broken pieces of your self, heart, faith, life etc. Then begin to pick up the pieces and go back to the Potter! It’s your time and your time is now!

#ACKNOWLEDGINGYOURCURRENTSITUATION
#BEINGMADEWHOLE
#GODISREAL
#BROKENNOMORE
#IAMBELIEVER
#IAMALSOAWITNESS

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STOP HOLDING OTHERS ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOUR DREAMS


STOP HOLDING OTHERS ACCOUNTABLE FOR YOU DREAMS

Key word, OTHERS! Your dreams are not theirs and will not ever be! Their dreams are not yours and will never be! What God has for you, it is for you and likewise. There have been times when you have been dreaming only to wait on someone else to bring your dream into fruition. Well my dear, that’s your job! Give your dream or dreams a date and make it a goal! Then go after it with a vengeance! Be unstoppable and immovable because this is the key to your future and to your children’s future! You are holding destiny back, go forth and do great things! Wow, do you even believe that you can accomplish big things! Do you believe that you can do great things? Do you know that you are someone special? Well you can and you are! I believe in you! God believes in you and that’s why he trusted you with this dream! Make Him proud! Stop waiting and start doing! The rest of the best of your life is waiting on you! Stop being your worst critic and start being your biggest cheerleader! Stop saying you can’t and say that you can! Stop letting fear hold you back and release your fears! Stop saying no and say yes! Stop thinking that you will fail and prepare to take flight! Learn to trust yourself enough to take risk and realize that caution takes you no where! You see it’s ok to be dropped off, it’s not ok to be picked up in the same place doing the same thing twenty years later, that’s not success or progress! Instead you have allowed life to pass you by. I’m holding you accountable for your dreams, they are going to bless so many!

#NOMOREPROCRASTINATION
#NOMOREHESITATION
#NOMOREDEVASTATION

#YOURDREAMSWILLBECOMEREALITY
#YOURDREAMSWILLCREATEYOURPATH
#LIVEYOURDREAMSAWAKEANDOUTLOUD

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BE YOUR OWN RESCUE

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BE YOUR OWN RESCUE

Who knows you or your situation better than you? Who knows how you got here better than you? Who knows exactly what it is you need to move from this place better than you? Exactly, you hold the key. Now let’s get one thing straight, everybody is not in a bad downtrodden state, some people have just become stagnant or complacent. Some of you are the cause of your own demise, while others stood by and allowed people to cause their demise. Well that stops today! Today I want you to put things in the right perspective, accept what is. Assess what needs to be and make a plan to achieve it! Now you didn’t get here over night, so don’t lie to yourself by telling yourself you can do this overnight, no you need to be honest and realistic! Let’s get one more thing out in the open, secure self first then you can consider helping others. This is not the time to try to save everyone, Jesus saves, not you. Make this about you for now. Do not , I repeat, throw an ‘S’ on your chest and start trying to rescue everyone, this will be chaotic and it will most definitely be an epic fail! Your focus, is and should be you! If you rescue you, you will be better in whatever role or capacities you need to be to better serve others at a later time. Now when you decide to be your own rescue, you will experience self doubt, the fear of failure, negativity, hardship, loneliness, let-downs and lack! You know lack of faith, friends and finances, etc! Don’t worry and don’t be dismayed, you have the power to overcome and become what ever you desire! This is not new, just a new revelation, it has always been in you waiting to be discovered. So what are you waiting on, start conducting your drills; that’s right, start drilling it in your heart and mind that you are your own rescue and you will not be defeated! You are here and you are ready! Make sure you have a written plan, provide timelines and action plans. Be realistic, you might need a quick escape or you just might have to teach others so that you can expand your mission! You have ignored you long enough, start listening, you are smarter than you think! Why do you think everyone else loves to come talk you? So start investing in you, you are worth it! Please note, God can not and will not fail, so keep God first!

#FINDINGYOURWAY
#DESTINEDFORGREATNESS
#OPERATIONRESCUEINFULLEFFECT
#GODORDAINED

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YOUR MESS WILL BECOME YOUR MESSAGE

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YOUR MESS WILL BECOME YOUR MESSAGE

YOUR MESS WILL BECOME YOUR MESSAGE! Some of us are in the middle of a mess whether at home, work, church or play. We seem to create and operate in mess as if this is the way it should be, not so! When things die down, we stir them back up. We will get in someone else’s mess just to pass time. Sometimes we think we will never make it out of our messy situations. To be honest, we have all found ourselves here but as we mature, we take heed to our ‘messes’, they usually provide the foundations for our message. Our message is our testimony! Our message is how we help others heal in their situations! The size of your mess gives volume to your message! So pray your way through your mess and prepare to share your message!

#CANTWAITTOHEARYOURMESSAGE
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STOP, IT’S NOT OK

STOP, IT’S NOT OK

It’s not ok to lie to yourself or others anymore! Stop pretending to live on the outside and you are dying on the inside! Stop expanding your vocabulary when you refused to expand your thought processes! Stop running around with and open mouth yet you have a closed mind! Stop telling people you are happy when the truth is, you don’t know why a happy insane never experienced joy. Stop quoting people and scriptures if you are not applying them in your life! Stop being the wind to others when you refuse to speak or be life to and for yourself! Stop, It’s not ok! Stop recognizing the STAR in everyone else when you refused to see your own qualities and potential! STOP, it’s not ok! Stop being someone else’s option and demand to be a choice: THIS ONLY HAPPENS WHEN YOU KNOW YOUR WORTH! Stop letting people dictate who and what you are or will be and start making your own choices! Stop preaching and teaching when all you are doing is cheating? Stop telling your self your are skinny in your head when you are fat in reality; your health matters! Your health is connected to your wealth; wealth is not always financial. Stop, it’s not ok! Really, it’s not ok. YOU CANNOT, I REPEAT CANNOT leave your past, yet bring the same people, stuff and mindset into you now while you are preparing for your future! It will not work, you will find yourself in the same situation with the same circumstances at a different location, that’s it! IT’S NOT OK! Stop cleaning up everyone else’s business, while you are living in a mess! Stop worrying about everyone else and work on what you have going on! Yes, you have something you can work on or improve. Let’s clarify, you can help and continue to pray for others BUT KNOW THAT ONLY GOD SAVES! Stop, it’s not ok to pretend you can handle everything. Stop providing everyone with the keys to your life; If they are the keys to your house, your car, your heart, your life, WHY does everyone have the key to do, go or come as they please? Stop, because it’s not ok! I’m not sure what you were taught or have being doing but today is your NEW START! STOP GOING TO WORK TO COMPLAIN, GO TO WORK WHILE YOU PLAN AND PURSUE YOUR OWN COMPANY! STOP GOING TO CHURCH TO SET THE CHURCH FOLKS OUT, SEE WHAT YOU KNOW WHO IS WEARING OR TO TRY TO CORRECT AND SET THE PREACHER STRAIGHT, it’s not your job, nor do you have the authority to do so! Go to hear and receive what God has to say, receive the WORD! BONUS: if you had all of this together etc, wouldn’t you be the preacher with your own church? Lol! Stop, it’s not ok to just exist, I admonish you to start actively and consciously living! You deserve to live life in abundance, albeit love, laughter, peace, prosperity, success, health, faith, etc! So stop giving in and start doing whatever you aspire to do! I dare you to walk by faith and not by sight! If you doubt me, try God! Just in case you wondering if this message is for you, here are a few checks: if you have been longing to make that move, but haven’t, do it! If you have become uncomfortable in your old comfort zone, it’s time! If you have become complacent and still not content, this is also for you! If something keeps weighing on your heart and mind, and you keep hearing the same message, that’s your confirmation! It’s time! Don’t worry, everyone you thought you were controlling, helping or saving; GOD WILL PROVIDE! Start chasing your dreams so they won’t be buried with you! Stop planing your legacy that you will leave and start creating your living legacy now!! Stop thinking you got this, you really don’t! Your were never in control, just in the way, so get out of the way and WATCH GOD!

#STOPPINGSOMETIMESMEANSSTARTING
#GETTINGOUTOFTHEWAYTOMAKEAWAY
#IFYOUREAMAZEDNOWYOUWILLBEBLOWNAWAYLATER

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IT WAS NECESSARY

IT WAS NECESSARY

In case you’re wondering how it worked or why it didn’t work, know that it worked out just how it was supposed to! In case you were loved, supported or hurt, defeated, whatever the case, know that it was necessary! You have experienced so many things, feelings and situations, you are just happy to be here! Please know even that’s ok. That job, relationship, friendship, deal or dream that didn’t work out, know that, that too was necessary! Everything you have witnessed or experienced was necessary for your NOW! You have never been able to understand it but things somehow seemed to work out, that’s because it’s been about the PROCESS AND NOT THE PROGRESS! You needed to have mile markers along your journey so that you could become a teacher to the future students that will travel the same path. Why you, you ask because you were divinely designed! So right now, at this very moment, give God the praise, honor and Glory because you survived your story! Your. pain will fuel your purpose and will be the foundation of your platform! You will be someone else’s lifeline, someone else’s inspiration and lastly; someone else’s compass to their destination. The world is blessed to have you! Go ahead and look back at what didn’t kill you nor did it steal your joy!

#YOUMADEIT
#NOBODYBUTGOD
#PAINISYOURPAST
#PURPOSEISYOURFUTURE

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YOU CAN’T GIVE FROM AN EMPTY PLACE

YOU CAN’T GIVE FROM AN EMPTY PLACE

You start out full but life and experiences deplete you of all you have. You want to give, love, support and build but you simply forget to receive, replenish or rest. You just know that things have tO happen and you believe they will only happen if you take a role, not true. You have to get what you need in order to give what you want to give, albeit love, respect, power, money, encouragement, strength, faith, trust, wisdom even life!This list could go on and on, I’m sure you get what I’m saying. Know that you are not the only one! There are so many empty people walking around and functioning on Grace because God refuses to let them fall. You know this because it’s true, when simply all you have to do is return to the source! That source is God and only God! You can’t buy it, build it or create it. You must go back to the Creator Himself! It’s simple, when your coffee cup is empty you return to the pot. So you must return to the POTTER, if you empty, broken, sad, weak, wounded, weary, heavy burdened, lost, in need, sick, blind, discouraged, etc! You need to be honest with self and do what you to do to get you in shape. Now your health included, are you taking care of self? Are you able to sleep at night? Do you worry about worrying? Are you only at your best when someone is around or you know you are being watched? Are you functionally dysfunctional? Do you completely deflate when nothing is required of you? If you gave the slightest nod to one or all of the questions, stop what you are doing and go back to be refilled. If you keep going, you are either already empty or running low! God is waiting! Stop what you’re doing and seek Him now! Time is of the essence! You matter and He loves you! He wants to love on you! He wants to do for you, without you having to do for Him! He wants to build you up! He is willing to make you over again. He wants to forgive you and show you what peace and joy are. He has all you ever need and He wants you to have it and have it more abundantly! You must be full before you can pour into someone or something, your life, children, family, church and work included! It’s simple! No matter whether it’s in love or in life, YOU CANT GIVE FROM AN EMPTY PLACE!

#THEREISNOTHINGINNOTHING
#HEHASEVERYTHINGYOUNEEDTODOANYTHINGYOUWANT
#SEEKTHESOURCE

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