CAN YOU STAND THE PULL

CAN YOU STAND THE PULL?

Can you? You are being pulled in so many directions. You can’t seem to stand for falling. You just feel like giving up. You are just so angry because every time you move forward, you fall three steps behind. You’re trying but it’s hard to understand what is going on. You have being praying and trying to keep the faith but nothing seems to be working. You just want out! Don’t give up whatever you do. I stopped by to tell you that God saw you going through a storm. God saw your world falling down around you. God saw that no one was trying to help you. God saw you helpless, sad you standing still; He began to pull you through! The pull had to be hard because you were being set up to fail. A lot of traps were set for your demise. Death was even around the corner but God said not so! He is pulling you through because He sees the greatness in you! He sees the potential in you! He sees that you are more than a conqueror! He sees Himself in you! He said He was not finish with you! Hold on and don’t let go! That pull is your HELP! God will pull you through if you can stand the pull! ( in my Pastor Micheal Perkins voice)

#GREATERISCOMING
#ALREADYWORKEDOUT
#TEST=TESTIMONY
#FAITHOFJOB
#DONTFORGETTOTESTIFY

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IT’S TIME TO SHUT THE DOOR

IT’S TIME TO SHUT THE DOOR

You have suffered long enough! You have struggled long enough! You have hurt long enough! You have had to bear some burdens long enough! You have given your all long enough! You have paid the price long enough! You have waddled in self pity long enough! You have endured long enough! You have been held captive by others long enough! You have held yourself prisoner long enough! You have felt sorry long enough! You have cried long enough! Lord knows you have been lost long enough! It’s time to shut the door on your past. It’s time to shut some people and things out! You have known this for a very long time but you keep trying to have an open door relationship with closed minded people! You are a giver and they are takers. You are a lover and they are haters. You are a builder and they are destroyers. You are a help and they do nothing but hurt. You are unequally yoked in friendships, relationships work-ships, church-ships, partnerships, marriages, etc. This will not work and not only does it not serve you on any level, it’s affecting you in a bad way! Your health, sleep, finances, work, church, heart, mind and family are suffering. You know this is true because you have had this feeling in your Spirit for a long time. But how? Should you? Could you? Would you? When? How? Really? Why? Why now? Maybe it will change? No! No! No, it won’t! You will have to make the changes and the time is now! Can you? Will you? Say yes to you, starting right now? Write it down, pray and then do it! You will have to shut some doors so God can open new doors in your life! These doors will be pathways without pain, journeys of joy and pathways of peace! Are you ready? Go ahead and shut those doors and don’t apologize! Stand firm, don’t let anyone talk you out of it! You deserve greatness! You deserve love, honor, respect, joy, peace, support, encouragement, abundance and all that life has to offer!

#LONGTIMECOMING
#EASIERTHANYOUTHINK
#ALREADYINTHEMAKING
#NOLONGERAFRAID

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STOP GIVING WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE

STOP GIVING WHAT YOU DON’T HAVE

So many times you go over and above for any and everybody except self! Be it time, money, energy, love, support, conversation, encouragement, guidance or just space you try your best to make sure everyone has what they need, everyone but you. You somehow have convinced yourself that this is the right thing to do or shall I say the Christian thing to do. To make matters worst, you think that if you at any time in life received love, help or support during one of your hard times in life that this is required of you for the rest of your life. No, you don’t! God made provisions for you and your debt is paid. It is great to give back but you can’t do it forever nor for everyone. You have convinced yourself that if you don’t help, you should feel ashamed or guilty. I am here to tell you to STOP! I say stop because you have given so much for so long that you are giving what you don’t have. You have depleted self on so many levels. You know this is true. You know this because you are exhausted and empty at the end of the day. It takes everything in you to find rest and you constantly seek peace. Those that really need you never even ask, so you take it for granted that they will be ok. Truthfully you are neglecting them and abusing self. Don’t get me wrong, on the surface when and where it can be observed, you seem to be doing and awesome job but underneath you know you are slowly growing tired. No one pours into you because you don’t allow it! You have convinced yourself and others that you don’t have needs, this is the furthest thing from the truth. You are in great need because you are a source for so many. You keep depleting yourself by giving and not allowing yourself to receive anything from anyone. You bypass the most important person on your journey because you don’t give to self. So stop and assess you, assess your life and those close to you. Then vow to give all of you to you. You will not be wrong, for once you will be right! Give yourself your time, love, money, energy, support, encouragement, guidance etc! It will feel different but it will make all the difference! You see if you pour into self, you will become full and passively overflow into the lives of others! This is how you live! This is also how you should give! If you become full, you will overflow. You will have so much to live for and so much to give. You will no longer live in despair, instead you will learn to live in abundance! Please note: this includes your work, church, community, friend circle and family; you can’t give what you don’t have! Know that everyone will be ok, your putting yourself first will not hurt anyone. It’s time for you to come 1st. I love you as you are right where you are!

#LONGOVERDUE
#BACKTOTHEBASICS
#BECAUSEYOUDESERVEIT

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YOU FELL DOWN, SO WHAT?

YOU FELL DOWN, SO WHAT?

You have fallen and you won’t get up, notice I didn’t say you can’t get up that’s because you can! What are you waiting for? Get up and get moving. You have been put down and dragged through the mud for being human. You have lost your fight and just want to give up. Don’t! You just need to muster up the strength to get up; your battle is already won! Truth be told, it was never your battle to fight. You were knocked down but not knocked out! The bad part of your fall is that you are your worst enemy, you keep beating yourself up. You are your worst judge and jury. You seem to think that this is the end, well it’s not, it’s the beginning. The people that you are counting on, are standing and waiting instead of helping, don’t get mad, get up! You are the reason they are standing, they count on you for your strength. Your job, home, family, church and life all seem to be in constant turmoil or strife with each other and you don’t know what to do. You keep saying maybe tomorrow, I’ll try again, maybe tomorrow will be a new start, maybe, maybe, maybe… Well stop wallowing in your self pity and get it together TODAY because tomorrow is not promised! Forgive yourself and move on! That’s right, this was just one of many more falls to come, in fact you are going to be a professional getter-upper, lol. Truth of the matter is, you are so strong and resilient. You have so much fight left in you. You have made it this far even though you were counted out long ago. You see, you are a miracle! God performed a miracle in you and through you; you are now the light for many. So I will ask you again, you fell down, so what? Your getting up is going to be Epic!
Can’t wait to see your next move! People think its about how bad the fall was, no, it’s about how you get back up!

#DOWNBUTNOTOUT
#GREATERISCOMING
#WEFALLDOWNBUTWEGETUP

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DON’T LET NOBODY OR NOTHING TURN YOU AROUND

DON’T LET NOBODY OR NOTHING TURN YOU AROUND

DON’T! You are on the right track at the right time, don’t let nobody or nothing turn you around! People and things will show up to turn you around but you must remain steadfast and immovable in your quest. Whether to gain more, improve self or renew your Spirit, your time is NOW! If obstacles are showing up out of nowhere, KNOW that what you seek and/or what you have been working on is just around the corner! You are almost there, don’t give up and don’t give in! This is just a time for you to adjust or adapt; just do whatever you have to do but don’t be dismayed! Press full speed ahead and keep your focus! Renew, regroup, refresh, re-dedicate to your cause and purpose so you will refrain from retreating!

I admonish you not to let nobody or nothing turn you around!

#DETERMINED
#FOCUSED
#ONTHERIGHTPATH
#DESTINYAWAITS

KEEP ON KEEPING ON!
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STARTING OVER

STARTING OVER

Starting over will require two things. First you must decide to start over. Secondly, you must live consciously! So many people get stuck or find it hard to start over because they get distracted. Many people think it’s about saying goodbyes and saying farewell when it’s NOT! It’s about saying hello and greetings to what’s to come! So what, you made some mistakes, mis-steps and mishaps, we all do! Forgive yourself, forgive others and #GETMOVED! If you must start over daily until you get it right, do just that. Don’t give up, you are worth the work. Start over so you can get to where you are destined to go and be who you are destined to be! If it’s a relationship, career or task that you failed, it’s ok you are not dead and it’s not the end; you just need to start over! YOU DON’T OWE ANYONE BUT YOU DO OWE IT TO YOURSELF TO BE TRUE TO YOURSELF, DON’T DIE WITH REGETS, WHEN ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS START OVER!

#ITSNOTOVERJUSTANENDING
#NEWSTART
#NEWOUTLOOK
#NEWDETERMINATION
#NEWHORIZONS
#NEWTERRITORY

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BE PREPARED TO MODIFY YOUR PLANS

BE PREPARED TO MODIFY YOUR PLANS!

Be prepared to modify your plans because your plans may not line up with God’s plan. So often we tend to plan without consulting the Master about His plans for us, it’s just what we do! We are so busy trying to gain, accomplish and achieve things that we work ourselves into a frazzle. This is not how things are supposed to work! If you seem to be working hard just to get by or no matter what you do, things don’t work out regardless how hard you try. It probably means that these are things not in His Will because whatever is for you, is for you! You see he can knock down walls, move mountains, open doors and give you things that you never thought would be possible! He can block you from attacks of the enemy and close doors that need to be closed. If you just seek Him first and do His Will, you and your life will be forever changed! So if for some reasons things don’t go as you planned, shake it off, re-group and be prepared to modify your plans because He just might be working things in your favor! His plan is better!

#ILOVEYOU
#HELOVESYOUMORE
#TODAYISANEWBEGINNING

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BECOMING COMFORTABLE IN THE UNCOMFORTABLE

BECOMING COMFORTABLE IN THE  UNCOMFORTABLE

BECOMING UNCOMFORTABLE IN THE UNCOMFORTABLE! WOW! HOW MANY OF US LIKE TO BE UNCOMFORTABLE? None of us, correct? I know I don’t, I like to be comfortable! It’s who and what we know. It’s also who and what we know that makes us complacent. Notice I didn’t say content, there is a difference! One gets you to a certain point, the other keeps you there! How many know that in order to get something different, we must do something different? How many of us know that if we want change, we must evoke change? We must not live by other people’s standards; instead we must be the standard by which others live! In order to evoke change, you must be the change you want to see! Change is not easy; it is very uncomfortable but it is necessary! We keep finding ourselves uncomfortable but we try to settle in anyway, no more! I am here to tell you that you are being prepared to do, be and live differently! So get comfortable being uncomfortable from now on. You are being pushed into your future and it looks great on you!

Try it, you just might love it! There are some things that make you uncomfortable, seek them out don’t let them come find you!

Give out the invitation don’t wait to be invited! You are the HOST!

I will see you up there, elevation!

#DUESEASON
#NOWNOTLATER
#EVENIFIDONTUNDERSTAND

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CHAINS ARE BEING BROKEN

CHAINS ARE BEING BROKEN IN YOUR LIFE

I know you think you are going through but in reality you are being set free! You have been bound by strongholds, people, places , things, situations, lifestyles, religions, traditions and expectations but no more! You are being loosed as you read this. Your prayers are being answered and your blessings are on the way! Yes, you experienced some setbacks but your that was to prepare you for your comeback. You will advance to higher heights! You will be astonished of what is to come! You have no idea of what awaits you! You were bound because you had to be in the right position for such a time as this! You might be experiencing some discomfort but know that is to be expected. You are essentially going through a birthing process. Your tears, struggles and pains have not been in vain. Your ‘new’ required a new you! Some pruning, molding, re-shaping and reconfiguring had to take place. Don’t worry, it’s all a part of the plan! Be steadfast and immovable! Your time is at hand! Prepare to receive!

#HANDSUP
#SHACKLESBEGONE
#FINALLYFREETOBEME

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KEEP THE FAITH

KEEP THE FAITH

What is faith? The substance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen. Many say they have faith but when faced with tough situations, Faith is the first thing to go. That’s because we connect Faith to what we have, instead Faith should be connected to what God can and will do! That’s why it’s called mustard seed faith because it’s really not about you. It’s all about God! You have to totally trust Him to bring you through, keep you, sustain you, protect you, provide for you, heal you and most importantly work on you. If He works on you, through you and for you, He more than likely is working on others as well. There really is a bigger picture! It’s really about God and not you. He will get the Glory! So whatever you are going through, whatever the devil is trying to do in your life, be still and know that God is still good! Know that God is in control! No matter the backbiting, ditches, betrayal, or traps set for you, know that you will not fail! Keep the faith and trust that whatever and whenever all is said and done, you will rise above! Please keep the faith because God will keep you!

#GODISALLINEED
#GODISMORETHANENOUGH
#HEKEEPSONKEEPINGME
#PRAISEHIMINADVANCE

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